I’ve been hanging around house sellers (too much) lately and I find myself wondering why the most fun loving, rational of people become raving mad lunatics as soon as their house goes up for sale. It just shouldn’t come as a surprise that it takes longer to sell a home these days. The economy is in the toilet. On top of that, low ball offers shouldn’t be particularly startling either, so why is it that sellers fly off the handle and end up on a rampage when on the receiving end of one?
This is very likely due to the ugly baby syndrome. Sellers wonder why their house is taking so long to sell or they become downright insulted when somebody asks for a deal. Sellers fail to see the strict business side of the deal –they only hear that they have an ugly baby. Consequently, if you’re a seller, the most productive thing you can do in today’s market is to give yourself an emotional remodel.
Consider:
You are selling your house, not your home. Make the mental transition for this transaction and realize that while you consider the sale of your home near and dear to your heart, the buyer sees this transaction as the purchase of a house or real property. There are no personal insults or attacks in a business transaction. There is no ugly baby.
A low ball offer is not an insult, it is an invitation to deal. No matter how far below asking price an offer is on your property, you need to keep in mind that it is not a personal statement. In today’s dismal economy, buyers are doing what buyers are expected to do. They are looking for a good deal and there should be no harm and no foul for asking for one. After all, some sellers are willing to make better deals than others, and it’s your prerogative as a seller to simply say no, or more wisely, to make a counter offer.
A lower offer might not be your ideal offer, but it might just make financial sense. Emotions get in the way and cloud solid financial sense. The holding costs of property might make a lower offer more reasonable that it seems at first blush, so do not discount what you have in front of you because it just might take longer than you think to find a buyer that values your house the same way you value your home.









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